Do I have your attention? When he does go down on you, instead of diving right in, encourage him to tantalize your entire V-zone first. Men seem to think that blow jobs are easy—that you just suck and try to keep your teeth out of the way. Things that felt uncomfortable at the beginning might not be enough towards the end—so it's understandably tricky for men to get it right. As Dan Savage always says, women have to enable their own pleasure—we have to be our own best advocate in bed, and be as aggressive and entitled as men are.
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Another tip is to position one of your legs in between his so you can feel his erection.
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My female partners have been unanimously more giving and considerate, and certainly more likely to give me head. Do I have your attention? Another tip is to position one of your legs in between his so you can feel his erection. Even though you're relaxing on your back, while he's doing most of the work, don't check out.